The Top Three Habits That Veil Your Happiness

The Top 3 Habits That Veil Your Happiness 

Have you ever taken the opportunity to observe your current habits to realize that they have no benefit towards your highest good, goals or, most importantly, your happiness? The reality is, if you were to take the time, you will realize they don’t serve any of your goals and ultimately veil your happiness. With that being said, are you ready to take back your happiness power and create the life of your dreams? Well, it all starts with your habits as your habits will lead to actions and your actions will lead to your goals and desires coming forth. So, with that being said, let’s take a look at the top 3 habits that veil your happiness so you can begin living the life authentically and happily.  

1. A Tea Party With The Past and the Future 

So many people love to host a tea party with the past – and it’s quite sad. The quote says, “The Past is in the Past,” for a reason. At the same time, does the future really exist? To exist essentially means to stand out. Does the future literally stand out? So, if you want to get your mind blown really quickly and shatter this habit, continue reading. One of the best authors of all time, Eckhart Tolle, author of The Power of Now, has put forth true in saying the past does not exist and through acceptance of this is your true freedom. In context that everything that you will do, have ever done and do currently are all done in the present moment, now. It does not matter how you view it, it’s now and that’s where your power resides. It’s important to reflect and grow from moments from previous Now’s, but in that you are still looking at the moments from essentially, Now. So what is time, Now. Through embracing the habit of living only from the mentality of now, you remove so many paradoxes and contradictions that distract and veil your true happiness – it’s here your awareness of beauty and happiness will soar like an eagle.  

2. Being Ungrateful 

One of the biggest veils and habits that shrouds your happiness is your attitude on gratitude. The majority of people have such a falsified and surfaced-base view on gratitude. Ask yourself, how grateful are you for the $100 you have in the bank account? How grateful are you for the meal you were able to cook today? While each day presents new opportunities and learning moments, you realize that all of those moments are meant to teach and guide you towards your ultimate level of success. In other words, be just as grateful for all the moments that never worked out as you are for those that did. It’s those moments that allowed you to get you to the step you’re on now. Instead of focusing on the lack of opportunities or mind-based illusions like scarcity, focus on everything you do have. “Start with your breath,” as Oprah says it and your happiness will be revealed like a Sun bursting through the clouds. 

3. Procrastination  

While you are busying dreaming of some future life, keeping up with the Kardashians, eating a bag of chips or playing some game on your phone, there are others who are actually dedicated to bringing forth their dreams rather than paying attention to some façade, getting overweight or staying poor. The habit that so many people have – and it’s the truth behind why many people fail to reach success – is that of procrastination. Procrastination will keep you poor, eating potato chips and wishing you did something different. Through procrastination, It seeps from being late to work to business tasks to bills to even your goals and dreams. Ultimately, procrastination veils your happiness as it keeps you distracted from your goals and creates stress, which ultimately is the resistance of acceptance of what is 
in hopes of it being different. The secret to capitalizing and establishing a new habit is taking the step to get started now! Make a to-do list, set goals, and most importantly focus on accomplishing each task at hand – not some potential tasks 4 months down the road. 

YOU Control YOUR Happiness 

 Your happiness is not veiled by anyone or anything else but you. You veil your own happiness with perceptions, contradictions and habits. Through recognizing which habits truly have no benefit towards your success – don’t you think it’s time to embrace the change and become a more authentic and successful individual? Don’t fear which step to take – just take a step! Any moment you waste debating what step to take, you are already taking one step backwards. Life is happiness and happiness is life – don’t get lost in the falsified ideologies of the socially controlled, create your own.